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How to convince parents for love marriages


How to convince parents for love marriages

Dating offers you the chance to explore and learn before you make the serious commitment of marriage. You can move in with someone and share different aspects of your life to test out what marriage would be like with that person. It's not, however, the same as being married.

Marriage, especially in India, is considered as a sacred institution. In India marriages are considering as a holy matrimony of two families.  

Be it the youngsters or aged people, for both, marriage holds a very respectable place in their eyes. But due to an age gap, youngsters & parents often have a differing thoughts regarding marriages. .

 

And when such parent’s children want to get married to their choice of girl/boy, the tiff begins.

 

This is where a proper communication comes into picture, one out of which is convincing your parents.

A parent’s love for their child is unconditional. This love never waivers, even as children reach adult age, they always treasurers the best thing for their kid, thus they easily understand what's right for you and what's not. Perhaps sometimes making them believe in your decision can be a tough task. Knowing their concern and still trying to convince them makes it utter chaotic at times! 

The first step towards it is being confident from within, knowing that the person you chose is the person you want to spend your entire life with. Making efforts to talk to each other's family and then persuading them to take a decision together is what is required in this stage. Always remember, stay patient, don't lose your calm easily. A concern parents won't let you take a wrong step. 

 

Generally, there are two types of families exist ie. traditional and moderate.

Traditional families has lots of issue with love marriage but moderate can adjust easily.

In traditional families, it is very difficult for parents to accept love marriages. They feel shame in society if their child do love marriages, sometimes they sucide. In this case it is very difficult for their child to convince them.

As per our observation and experience you can do following things to convince your parents

  • Initially have a normal talk to your parents regarding love marriage and try to get their opinion
  • If they are opposing a lot, take few days to convince them for love marriage
  • Try to do brain wash showing positive side of love marriage
  • Take confidence of your siblings and tell them everything about your love
  • Talk to your relative whom your parents like most and talk about the positive side of love marriage.
  • If your parents shows positive sign for love marriage, Introduce your partner atleast after 1 month
  • Be honest and tell all about your partner
  • Make your parents emotional and tell them we will do marriage only if you agrees
  • If they donot agrees, make them emotional. It may takes several months
  • When your parents agrees, marry to your love and make a balance between your parents and your spouse

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